Why Is Bullying Harmful !!!
WHY IS BULLYING HARMFUL?
Some people think bullying is just a part of growing up, away for young people to learn to stick up for themselves. Although the latter is never true, what excuses are there then for people(adults) in a position of power who bully?
No matter what the situation, people who are bullied feel unsafe, frightened, isolated, lonely, or that there must be something wrong with them. They loose confidence and may not want to return to school or work. It can even make people physically ill. This may show up as:
- Withdrawal from family and school activities, wanting to be left alone.
- Shyness
- Stomach aches
- Headaches
- Panic attacks
- Not being able to sleep
- Sleeping too much
- Being exhausted
- Nightmares
Children who learn they can get away with violence and aggression continue to do so into adulthood. They have a higher chance of being involved in dating aggression, sexual harassment and criminal behavior in later life. All very compelling reasons to address it sooner than later.
Bullying can also have an effect on a student’s learning. Stress and anxiety caused by bullying and harassment can make it more difficult for kids to concentrate and be successful at school. It is more difficult to focus and remember things when someone is preoccupied and certainly when someone is concerned about their safety.
F bullying isn’t stopped, it also hurts the bystanders, as well as the person who bullies others. Bystanders are afraid they could be the next victim. Even if they feel badly for the person being bullied, they avoid getting involved in order to protect themselves or because they are not sure what to do. The guilt that is carried around by well- meaning but frightened children cannot be ignored either.